There are many phrases which try to describe anyone past the age of sixty. Phrases like, “over the hill,” “past my prime,” and “slowing down” come to mind. None of these describe Valerie Ramsey.
I heard Valerie Ramsey speak at a luncheon for seniors last week. Now 78, she defies every concept I previously believed about aging. Valerie’s story is amazing. A mother of six, and stay at home mom, she entered the work force at age 53. Valerie began her career selling golf balls at Pebble Beach Resorts and worked her way up to the position of Public Relations Media Director.
Soon after she accepted her dream job at Pebble Beach, Valerie was diagnosed with cancer and heart disease. She made a decision to not let adversity stop her from doing the work she enjoyed. Valerie overcame her health issues and continued her position as PR director for fifteen years.
End of story? No way. At age 63, Valerie was discovered by the Wilhelmina Modeling Agency of San Francisco. Tall and slender, Valerie fit the perfect image of a beautiful mature woman. It’s hard to believe she kept her fulltime position at Pebble Beach while working modeling assignments part time.
If that wasn’t enough, Valerie is an author. Her book, “Creating What’s Next Gracefully” (Pathfinder, 2013) inspires readers to do great things, no matter what their age. At 78 she is a popular motivational speaker on the national and international circuits and has no intention of slowing down. Valerie has appeared on many TV shows, including the Today Show, Fox News, and Extra. Oh and by the way, she still models.
Back to the luncheon… During her presentation Valerie encouraged listeners to create what’s next in their lives by keeping their eyes and ears open for new opportunities to pursue their dreams. ” One way to power past fear is to imagine a positive outcome,” shared Valerie. “Above all, don’t let who you were define who you are.”
I have to say I’m inspired by Valerie’s message. So many people, women especially, look at their advancing years with a feeling of dread. Valerie sees her age as a positive. After all how many people succeed in new careers in their sixties and seventies? At age 64, I’m not considering a modeling career, but I am looking forward to more adventure. Are you thinking about your next chapter? Leave a comment and tell me about it. Let’s encourage one another.



The preserve protects 54,000 acres of Florida’s dry prairie. Looking out over the sweeping vistas of grassland, I’m reminded of the great plains of the Midwest. In the late 1800’s Florida cowboys, known as crackers, drove herds of cattle through here to markets on the coast. This rare prairie ecosystem hosts an abundance of wildflowers, birds, and animals. During our stay, my husband, Herb took some amazing wildlife photos.



And of course, lower, marshy land makes a great home for Great Blue Herons and everyday alligators.










Kevin drove us through three different ecological communities. The palm hammock, pine flatwoods, and cypress swamp. Along the way he stopped to describe the plants and animals. He told us that alligators often lose body parts due to fights with other gators. Yet, they never die from infection. 

And like all good conservationists, Kevin placed the flower back in the water after his demonstration so it can continue its work.
Highlands Hammock State Park is proud of its history. The park is one of eight in Florida developed by the 




My favorite tree is the Sabal palm. In Highlands Hammock many of these trees grow between seventy and one hundred feet tall. Upon my arrival home, I researched information about the life span of palm trees. I discovered palms do not have rings, so their age is determined by their height, rate of leaf production, and visible scars from fallen leaves.









